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Why Men Cheat

The ugliest truth about pornography is that it’s preserved more marriages than it’s ever destroyed.

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Rollo Tomassi
Aug 27, 2024
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The goal of feminism is to remove all constraints on female sexuality and behavior and to maximally restrict and punish the exercise of male sexuality and behavior. — Roissy

Why do men cheat? Short answer: because we want sex more than women do. Men produce between 12 to 17 times the amount of serum testosterone women do, and as a result, men have sexual impulses that women will never experience in a lifetime. That’s the simplistic answer everyone needs to hear, but no one is willing to address. The long answer is much more involved, but even the likes of Dr. David Buss are reluctant to make male sexuality anything more than a footnote to the ‘complexities’ of female sexuality.

Men like to fuck. We want to fuck, and we’ll find workarounds and fetishes to help us to fuck. If we can’t find a partner to fuck, the virtual experience of fucking will do just as well. Old-school talk show personality Tom Leykis once stated that, for men, having sex is like having to take a piss. We’d all love to urinate in a beautiful five-star hotel bathroom with gold fixtures, but when we’re driving a long stretch of road in the middle of nowhere and we really have to piss, a dirty gas station bathroom will do just as well.

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